Marriage is hard work and needs energy input. There are many reasons why marriages fall apart.

1. Communication issues: Difficulty expressing feelngs and emotions, Un-necessary agression, passive agression, misunderstandings or feeling unheard.
2. Lack of intamacy: Emotional or physical distance leading to a sense of rejection and disconnect.
3. Trust issues: Infidelity, lies, selfish manipulation, (narcissim),breaches of trust, or unresolved past conflicts in the marriage that erode trust.
4. Resolving conflicts: Unable to resolve conflicts in a healthy manner, the need to be right which keeps leading to recurring arguments.
5. Different values or goals: Different expectations, misalignment in long term asperations or core values.
6. Neglect or lack of appreciation: Feeling undervalued, used, neglected or unappreciated in the relationship.
7. Financial stress: Struggles related to financial management or disagreements about spending habits.
8. Parenting challenges: Disagreements about parenting styles or difficulties in co-parenting.
9. External stessors: Pressure from work, external influences from family and friends, or external circumstances affecting the relationship.
10. Unresolved baggage: Unresolved emotional issues from the past that influence the relationship in a negative way.

Do you feel like you are languishing in a relationship where gestures of love go unnoticed?

Many couples find themselves grappling with the painful sting of feeling undervalued and taken for granted. Just imagine pouring your heart and soul into your relationship, only to sense an unsettling void where acknowledgment and appreciation should thrive. It's an emotional struggle that erodes the very foundation of a once strong connection, leaving partners yearning for the reciprocity that seems to be slipping away, yet searching for a workable and stable solution.